Access to children after divorce
My former partner will not let me see my child. Should I get a child arrangement order?
It is a child's right to continue to have a relationship with both parents after they have separated, as long as this is in the child's best interests.One parent should only refuse to let the child see their other parent in exceptional circumstances, and as a last resort. If a parent does refuse to let the child see their other parent, they should bring the matter to court as soon as possible so that the court can make its own assessment of what is in the child's best interests.
If you are the parent who is unable to see their child and the other parent has not brought the matter to court, then you may have to bring a court application yourself. You will need to apply for a 'child arrangements order', which is a court order setting out who the children should live and/or spend time with.
It is not always necessary to involve the court in post-separation arrangements for children (see Do I have to go to court to decide where our children will live after divorce or separation?), but is more likely to be necessary where one parent has unilaterally terminated contact.
In these FAQs and answers, we use 'England' as a shorthand for 'England and Wales' because England and Wales share a single legal system. Scotland, meanwhile, is a different legal system and has different rules for many aspects of family law.
We have also chosen to talk about 'marriages' most of the time (which may be between either an opposite or same-sex couple). Unless we say otherwise, what we have said is also true of civil partnerships (which may also be between an opposite or same-sex couple).
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